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| 10-22-15 |
The relationship rules between Slavic bride and mother-in-law. |
First of all, you need to understand the reasons for disagreement and look for a solution to this problem only then. The relationship between the Russian woman and mother-in-law is more often tense if they live together. When the are two mistresses in the house, the clashes may occur due to household disagreements. For example, the mother-in-law constantly teaches her son’s wife how to cook soup, how to care for her son, and how to stroke his pants. Another reason for the disagreement the mother-in-law is strongly jealous of her son his wife. The son belonged to his mother entirely before the wedding, and now she had to share him with another woman. In this case, the mother-in-law feels needless. But it happens often that in conflict situations there is the daughter-in-law’s blame who's trying to minimize communication of her husband with his mother. But there is one thing that unites two women - both of them love one man. But one lady loves with her mother's love, and another one with his wife’s. It happened so that the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law started unsuccessfully since dating when they didn’t like each other!
But there is a way out of any situation. But we must remember that you need some effort to resolve the problem. Despite the fact there is no definite solution of the problem, there is always options! Try one or better several ways:
• territorial solution to the problem - to move to another place, if you live together;
• become friends - communicate together more often, and find common interests;
• tea-time conversation - try to talk heart to heart, and discuss pressing issues in a relaxed atmosphere. Try to compromise. Of course, starting such a conversation is not easy, but there is no alternative. Most importantly to understand the cause of the conflict in the process of conversation. And even then you decide what to do next;
• assign responsibilities and find something to do for the mother-in-case, let her feel that she is still necessary not only to her son but to the new family.
But the most important thing in establishing relations with the mother-in-law, is you need to see just an ordinary person in her with her advantages and disadvantages. Try to communicate more with her on neutral topics, and pay attention to her. And only if these methods prove unfeasible, have patience, to preserve your nerves and try to move away from conflict and provocations.
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